Friday, February 6, 2009

Love...for a life time ...let it be so ..!!

A relationship that need not be named as friends, brother-sister, lovers or anything else but they could be whatever they want to be for each other. I wonder what they would be called. :P...They share a nameless relation…that is what people would say…they are mad about each other…they are crazy about each other etc etc…blah blah…But the beauty of such a nameless relation is understood by them and only by them. It would become important to be in the relation than to give it a name. It would become important to love…not the routine boy-girl love…but to LOVE and UNDERSTAND and NOTHING ELSE MATTERS!! The fulfillment hasn’t found its way into the relation…just the love, affection, support, care, kindness, compassion, thoughtfulness. It doesn’t even matter that you stay with the person or live with him/her for the rest of your life…just the presence, the mere presence matters and the confidence that the relation would last forever though you are separated by miles and miles of distance. The relation can endure all that distance with a simple smile which mocks people who think the relation ended or the smile has the confidence that we still live for one another. The pain doesn’t really hurt; you enjoy the suffering. Probably such is the beauty of a pure relation…I really wonder if that is what purity means. The soul would dance to the tune of the unheard music, present deep inside the cockles of heart; it is the presence of these souls that matter; I may go to the point of saying the body doesn’t matter. THE SOLE SOUL!! The ego, the pride…nothing at all comes in the way of the relation. All that matters is the shameless acceptance of the words … “I live for you”.

Well, let’s contradict the above point…because I once stood for the point that … “Only love does not suffice, its fulfillment gives it the beauty”. Would you bear to part the person you love? Would you stop dreaming as you dreamt all along about the person who you thought was your life? Would you forgo the person who was indispensable or you? I guess it would be really difficult for someone to do so.

Well, I really don’t know how to end this…I hope you people have an end not just for the sake of ending it but for it to give it its end.

2 comments:

Himaja said...

"By the essence and nature of existence, there are no contradictions" :P
Fulfilment is definitely desirable, but more often than not, the choice does not rest with you.
And some of these times, it so happens that there is beauty in the difficulty and satisfaction in the endurance.
cheers! :)

adarsh said...

a nameless relation is always looked down by the society..but true ..the beauty of tht is know only to those in the relation..leaving aside the most important question of necessasity of naming the relationship..i think tht was beautiful description of the way a person feels…ofcourse ,one cant judge the feelings of others…pure relation is generally unconditional….and if being in a relation one can endure the pain ..then no doubt ..the relation is pure…wat causes all this yet another beautiful question..actually I shuld say most of the statement in your blog point to many questions..and yeah ending the blog must have been difficult..